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Two Words That Changed My
Public Speaking Forever
Isn’t it ironic that despite the
fact that I have read many books, purchased many products and substantially
invested in myself, the best public speaking tip that I have received is
only two words long? Two very simple words changed my thinking on public
speaking more than any textbook, audio or video ever has.
I first heard these two words from
James Malinchak, the famous youth, college and inspirational speaker. I have
heard it a few times from other speakers since, but James was the first to
bring it to my attention.
Are you ready for two words that
will change your public speaking forever?
Here they are…
BE YOURSELF!
That’s it!
How many times have people told you
that when you are on stage you have to improve your vocabulary, or you have
to dress up, or you have to stand on the spot? It gets you thinking that you
have to be “ultra-professional” on stage. Because of this you usually get
nervous thinking about things that don’t really matter!
Going back to James Malinchak, I
have listened to a few of his audios and he repeatedly states that he is not
one of the most technically correct speakers. He says that “the most
technically correct and well polished speakers are usually the worst because
people don’t relate to them. (From Big Money Speaker)”
It is so true!
We relate to people who are like us!
When was the last time you related to someone who drives a Ferrari, wears a
million dollar suit and never uses words that are less than ten letters
long? I never have, and I am guessing that you haven’t either. That’s
because we don’t relate to these people.
So when you are on stage, don’t
pretend to be someone else. Forget about all of the technical aspects of
public speaking. Be yourself!
Don’t get me wrong, don’t scrap
technical training altogether. If you do have problems that are having a
negative effect on your presentation, then I would seriously consider trying
to solve and/or prevent them. For example, I used to (and still do to a
lesser extent) rock on stage, and it was making me look like an idiot!
But whatever you do, don’t try to
change your personality! If you are have an energetic, happy personality,
don’t try and change it because you are on stage presenting a speech! Let
your true personality show. An example for me would be that I don’t possess
a detailed vocabulary. These articles are about as technical and as hi-tech
as I get! I am an Aussie and I always use slang and colloquialisms. (One of
my favourite quotes that I use is “I’m Australian born and bred, long in the
legs and thick in the head!”) So why should I change that when I am on
stage? Why should I pretend to be someone else, someone that I am not, when
I am public speaking?
So when you are on stage just be
yourself. You will find that you are more relaxed, your audience will relate
to you more and your message will come across better. Don’t try and pretend
to be someone you’re not just to try and impress your audience, because
ninety-nine times out of a hundred you will fail.
BE YOURSELF!
My Name Is Christopher
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